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Senior Home Care: Services, Costs and Tips for Aging in Place

Learn about in-home caregiving options for seniors who want to stay in their houses for as long as possible.

This article is based on reporting that features expert sources.

What Is Senior Home Care?

Aging is a fact of life. We simply can’t stop the clock, and for most adults, there will come a time when a little extra assistance performing the tasks of daily living would be helpful.

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In fact, someone who turns 65 today has a nearly 70% chance of needing some type of long-term care in their remaining years, according to the Department of Health and Human Services.

For some people, this support means moving into an assisted living community or a nursing home. For others, aging in place is a much more attractive goal.

What Is Aging in Place?

"Aging in place" is exactly as it sounds: Spending your twilight years in your home, without having to move to a senior care facility.

It's also a popular choice. According to AARP's 2021 Home and Community Preferences Survey, 77% of adults age 50 and older want to stay in their homes for the long term. Only 29% of survey respondents said they plan to relocate to another community as they age.

What's key to staying in your familiar environment is senior home care .

“Senior home care allows seniors to continue living as independently as possible at home, with limited care provided as the individual’s needs require,” says Bob Rees, chief sales officer with eHealth Inc., a health insurance broker and online resource provider headquartered in Santa Clara, California.

Senior Home Care vs. Senior Home Health Care

Support for aging in place can take a variety of forms – from technology to human services – but it tends to take two primary forms: senior home care and senior home health care.

Senior home care

This category involves personal care assistance , such as light housekeeping and running errands.

“Maybe they help someone get dressed or take a shower,” notes Danielle Pierotti, clinical associate professor and director of undergraduate studies with the School of Nursing at Idaho State University in Pocatello.

These caregivers are not usually licensed to provide health care services, and the training they receive varies from company to company. This form of care is also typically paid for out of pocket by the senior or the family.

Senior home health care

This category of care, which can include both medical and personal care components, involves a licensed professional, such as a registered nurse or a physical therapist, and a physician's orders, Pierotti says. Senior home care, on the other hand, may not involve a physician.

Home health care services are also usually covered by Medicare or a private insurer.

To qualify for Medicare coverage , you’re may be required to be homebound.

Home health services that may be covered by Medicare include:

• Skilled nursing care.
• Physical or occupational therapy.
• Speech-language pathology services.
• Injectable osteoporosis drugs for women.
• Durable medical equipment and other medical supplies for home use.

“Before coverage kicks in, you generally need to be seen face-to-face by a doctor to certify that you are in need of home health care services,” Rees adds.

What Senior Home Care Services Are Available to Help You Age in Place?

The menu of options offered by senior home care organizations is virtually limitless, but it's often dictated by the family budget. Services for seniors receiving in-home care may include:

• Light housekeeping, such as cleaning and laundry services.
• Meal preparation or delivery and diet monitoring.
• Assistance with eating.
• Personal services, such as assistance with bathing, dressing or walking.
• Assistance with shopping and other errands.
• Companionship and social interaction.
• Transportation.
• Volunteer services, which can run the gamut from simple companionship to transportation, personal care, emotional support and more specialized skills, such as assisting with paperwork or other needs.

Senior home health care services, on the other hand, can include:

• In-home nursing care, such as wound dressing, IV therapy, health monitoring, pain control and other nursing duties.
• In-home physical, occupational or speech therapy, as mentioned.
• In-home doctors' visits or telemedicine checkups via video conferencing or phone.
• Medical social services, such as counseling and identifying community support and other resources.
• Medication management or reminders.

Types of In-Home Senior Caregivers

Different organizations offer these services using one of three models, says Lakelyn Eichenberger, gerontologist and caregiver advocate for Home Instead Inc., a network of independently owned and operated senior home care agencies headquartered in Omaha, Nebraska.

Independent caregivers

This type may be a more casual arrangement, and the care may be coming from a friend, family member or a local provider that you hire independently.

Small caregiver registries

In some cases, a local organization or registry connects families with caregivers who are available. This is also a form of independent caregiving that the family would pay for out of pocket, but it may be a more formalized arrangement between the senior and the caregiver.

Agency caregivers

With this model, an agency employs professional caregivers who are sent into clients’ homes to care for them. Agencies can range in size from local mom-and-pop operations to regional or national franchise organizations. Some of these agencies may work with insurance companies to handle billing for what can be covered by Medicare, but it depends on how the business operates.

Some agencies also offer specialized memory care services for older adults who want to remain in their home but are dealing with cognitive decline, dementia or Alzheimer’s disease. Senior health caregivers offering these types of services are typically trained in what to watch out for and what to do when the individual’s health starts to change.

Other options

Creative living and care situations are also popping up.

“What we’re starting to see as the baby boomer generation grows older are a number of other options, including tiny house communities that offer independent living with some aspects of daily life being communal – think group meal time,” says Dr. Elizabeth Landsverk, a geriatrician based in the San Francisco area.

For example, she continues, some “retirees have chosen to live on a boat – I am one of them – as long as they are fit and have someone else on hand to help. We’re also hearing more and more about some who choose to live aboard cruise ships as most day-to-day needs like meal preparation, laundry, etc. are included in the cost.”

When Do You Need Senior Home Health Care?

Seniors usually need short-term assistance in situations such as:

• After coming home from a hospital stay .
• While recovering from an illness or injury.
• While experiencing chronic conditions, advanced age or cognitive decline .

In-Home Senior Care Cost

Estimating how much in-home senior care will cost can be challenging: The various combinations of services, plus the level of care needed and geographic location, all factor into price.

“The cost of care in a city like San Francisco tends to be higher than Omaha, Nebraska,” Eichenberger points out.

Generally, however, the median annual cost for homemaker services is $59,488, or $26 per hour, according to Genworth Financial's 2021 Cost of Care Survey (the most recent data available). The median annual cost for a home health aide is $61,776, or $27 per hour.

Most in-home care companies charge by the hour, with a typical range between $20 and $40, depending on the market. Each organization also has its own fee structure and cost ranges.

“Sometimes people think that home care is more expensive than it really is, but then they’ll underestimate the cost of a nursing home . Oftentimes, depending on the level of need , the opposite is true,” Eichenberger says.

For instance, the annual median cost of a semi-private room in a nursing home is $94,900, according to the Genworth survey. A private room in a nursing home is $108,408, about twice the median of in-home care.

“Having care at home can delay the need to move to a facility or community setting in a lot of cases,” which may cut down on lifetime cost, Eichenberger notes.

Ways to Pay for Senior Home Caregiving

For the most part, home care is covered out of pocket by families, though some long-term care insurance options may cover these fees.

In addition, Medicare Advantage benefits, as of 2019, include non-skilled home care services, such as assistance with tasks like bathing and dressing.

For both options, check your plan for details.

Is In-Home Senior Care Tax Deductible?

You may be able to deduct some aspects of in-home senior care when filing your taxes. Generally speaking, the medical expenses piece of in-home senior care is tax deductible if these expenses are deemed medically necessary by a physician. These expenses only become tax-deductible once they’ve exceeded more than 7.5% of your adjusted gross income.

For instance, assistance with certain activities of daily living, such as bathing, dressing, eating and toileting, may be deductible if they’re medically necessary and rendered for a minimum of 90 days. Other services, such as companionship or assistance with tasks that have not been deemed medically necessary, would not be tax deductible.

Before deducting any costs associated with in-home senior care services, seek the advice of a certified tax professional for specific guidance.

How to Find the Right In-Home Senior Caregiver

When considering whether elderly home care is right for your situation, Pierotti recommends “being very honest with yourself about what you’re comfortable with and what you’re seeking.” She likens the search for the right mix of services to completing a home renovation project.

“If you think about it in terms of how you would work with any contractor coming into your home – are you the type of person who’s comfortable hiring the plumber, the electrician and the lawn person all by yourself? Or do you want to hire a contractor who’s going to manage all those people? It’s a similar sort of situation,” she explains.

This can be a confusing and difficult aspect of finding the right solution, which is further compounded by the services a senior needs likely changing over time. Aging is dynamic, and it’s hard to predict exactly what assistance will be needed at a given point.

To get started, however, consider taking these steps:

• Talk to your physician about your care needs.
• Outline your budget.
• Research the options in your area.
• Ask lots of questions. Not only can you ask others for referrals to agencies, registries or individuals, but you should also interview multiple caregivers to ensure you're getting the services you need.

Tips for Aging in Place

Aging in place requires an honest assessment of needs versus wants and separating the ideal from reality, Pierotti says.

“‘What I really need is someone to make sure Dad gets a shower twice a week, but what I’d really love is someone who comes in every day and makes sure he has lunch and is dressed,’" she notes. "And then you can begin to break down and think through the things you really want compared to the things that you’d love to have and process those decisions along the way. What are you comfortable with? What can you afford? Where can you get people?”

Other tips include:

• Conducting a home safety assessment. Making modifications to the home may allow you or your loved one to remain there without risk of injury.
• Observing how potential caregivers interact with you or your loved one.
• Making sure that the caregiver is bonded and insured.
• Working with an established agency. If a caregiver is a no-show, the agency will find a replacement for you, Landsverk points out. If you hire on your own, you'll need to find a replacement yourself.

Bottom Line

Pierotti says many people can avoid moving to a nursing home when the right mix of family and community support is identified and employed. But this situation can be challenging for the family caregiver who’s tasked with coordinating care.

“The key thing is that we’re all in this together. As a national community, we’re going to have to talk about aging and what does it mean for all of us,” Pierotti says, adding, “To me, that’s what the conversation about aging is about.”

Having those conversations early and frequently is important to finding the right solution for your family.

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Eichenberger is a gerontologist and caregiving advocate for Home Instead Inc., a network of independently owned and operated senior home care agencies headquartered in Omaha, Nebraska.

Landsverk is a San Francisco area-based geriatrician offering an online telemedicine, education and support resource for eldercare professionals, caregivers and families. She is the author of “Living in the Moment: Overcoming Challenges and Finding Moments of Joy in Alzheimer’s Disease and Other Dementias.”

Pierotti is clinical associate professor and director of undergraduate studies with the School of Nursing at Idaho State University in Pocatello. She previously served as president and CEO of ElevatingHOME and the Visiting Nurses Associations of America.

Rees is chief sales officer with eHealth Inc., a health insurance broker and online resource provider headquartered in Santa Clara, California.

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The Visiting Schedule: What Seniors at Nursing Homes Actually Need

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If your aging parent lives in a long-term care community, you may worry you don’t visit enough, as you juggle career, family and community obligations. But, how often should you actually visit? As with most things in life, there is no one-frequency-fits all answer.

The frequency of visits should be based on both your loved one’s needs and your personal schedule. While once or twice a month may be doable and sufficient for some families and situations, others may need less or more frequent visits. Consistency is key so your loved one knows what to expect, and doesn’t feel disappointed when no one visits for extended periods, or doesn’t get overwhelmed by multiple visits in a short time period.

When your elderly mom or dad first moves into an assisted living or long-term care community, your natural instinct may be to visit daily or multiple times a week to aid with the transition, ensure they are well taken care of, and perhaps to alleviate your own feelings of guilt and worry. While well intentioned, your constant presence may actually prevent your parent from acclimating and making new friends.

Ask staff’s opinion on a good visit schedule and times of day, and quickly establish a routine. If other family members plan to visit regularly, work together to spread the visits evenly throughout the week or month. Consider your loved one’s needs. If they love Wednesday night bingo, ask if they’d like you to join or if they’d rather have time to enjoy the company of other residents.

Studies show quality of the visits matters more than frequency. Keep your visits consistent and when there, focus on your loved one. Put away your electronics, unless you’re sharing family photos or videos, and be present in the moment. Pay attention to your loved one’s emotional state. If they’re getting tired or agitated it may be time to say goodbye. For some, especially those with dementia, shorter visits may work better. Others, especially in assisted living, may enjoy less frequent but longer visits, so you may enjoy activities together.

Finally, remember you’re not alone. You and the staff at the senior living community should be partners in keeping your mom or dad happy, not only by figuring out the optimal visiting schedule but also helping you staying in touch between the visits. At Seven Acres and our assisted living residence – The Medallion, our staff is always available to provide updates, help set up a video call, or just pass along a greeting and a hug.

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House Call Doctor Visits Make Life Easier for Seniors and Caregivers

Important: This is an informational article to explain how house call doctor visits can benefit seniors. DailyCaring isn’t a medical organization, we aren’t medical professionals, and we aren’t affiliated with any healthcare organizations. We aren’t qualified to respond to any medical questions.

House call doctor visits benefit older adults and caregivers

Getting your older adult to the doctor’s office for an appointment can be difficult or sometimes impossible.

Whether they’re frail, can’t walk on their own, or have Alzheimer’s or dementia , getting out of the house is hard on both of you. Going to a doctor’s office can also expose seniors to germs or harsh weather.

We explain what a house call doctor is, what type of insurance they accept, how to find one, and what to look for in terms of services.

What is a house call doctor?

Today, many doctors are bringing back the old practice of visiting patients in their homes. With house calls, older adults don’t have to go through the stress and difficulty of getting to the doctor’s office. And neither do you.

Another bonus is that these doctors usually spend more time with patients. You won’t have to fit all your questions into a 15 minute visit.

Do they accept Medicare?

Yes, many house call doctors accept Medicare , private insurance, and sometimes Medicaid . It usually costs the same as a regular office visit.

But every house call doctor is different, so make sure you understand their fees and accepted insurance plans before making an appointment.

How to find a house call doctor

Some large health care systems like Kaiser Permanente or the VA have programs that include home visits by doctors and nurses. For example, Kaiser’s home-based palliative care program includes house calls.

Even your older adult isn’t part of a large health network, it’s worthwhile to ask your older adult’s doctor if they have home doctor visit programs.

The American Academy of Home Care Medicine’s provider directory is another way to locate a house call doctor in your area.

You can also use Google to search for “house call doctor” + your city or county or “home doctor visit” + your city or county (don’t include the quotation marks).

What to look for in a house call doctor

Before booking an appointment, make sure you understand the doctor’s services, fees, and billing.

Questions to ask:

• Do you specialize in treating seniors, people with Alzheimer’s or dementia , or those with  multiple chronic conditions ?
• Do you accept Medicare , Medicaid , or my older adult’s private insurance plan?
• If we want, can we also keep my older adult’s primary care doctor?
• Will you communicate with my older adult’s existing doctors and specialists so their care is coordinated?

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We want to be clear that we’re not recommending any specific home doctor services or companies and aren’t affiliated with any of these businesses. These are examples to give you an idea of what a house call doctor looks like and the type of services that are typically offered.

Examples of what a house call doctor looks like:

• Visiting Physicians Association (VPA)
• Bay Area House Call Physicians
• Kindred House Calls

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How to care for an elderly parent at home

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You may have begun to notice concerning changes in your parent during their aging process . Have they become more forgetful? Are they withdrawing from hobbies they used to enjoy and the people they love? Maybe you’re concerned about their safety in the home.

You may not feel ready for them to make the move to senior living, yet leaving your parent to manage on their own isn’t an option. So you ask yourself, “How do I take care of my aging parent?”

Here is wise advice: Slow down and take things one step at a time. Know that you are not alone in this. Focus on what you can handle. This guide can help you transform the looming obstacle of caregiving into a practical, realistic plan.

Quick guide: Caring for an elderly parent

Talk about care with your parent, make their home safe, assess medical needs, address cognitive health, learn how to help with daily tasks, encourage engagement and connection, handling money matters, access additional resources available to caregivers.

Before you do anything, it’s important to sit down and talk with your parent. Position yourself as a partner, not an authority. Transitioning from their child to a caregiver role can be complicated for everyone. Be patient with yourself and your parent.

Be tactful and considerate, but clear and direct. Sometimes well-intended help can be perceived as condescending and spurs resistance. Be prepared to have multiple conversations.

Make sure to talk to siblings about your parent’s care from the beginning, so no one feels left out. The sooner you start the conversation with your parent and family, the easier it will be for all involved to make decisions about Mom’s or Dad’s well-being, especially if their needs become challenging.

Most important, know your parent’s wishes before assuming the role of caregiver. They may prefer not to have a family member look after them, so understanding their expectations up front is beneficial for everyone.

A safe living environment is paramount, especially as your parent ages. Each year, more than one out of four older adults fall, but less than half report that fall to their doctor. Look for tripping hazards such as area rugs, cluttered hallways, door thresholds, cracks in the driveway, loose steps, electrical cords and ottomans.

Place easily accessible seating around the home. For example, a bench near the door to sit upon while removing shoes or a stool in the bedroom to make it easier to get dressed can be helpful.

While modifying the house for greater and safer mobility, consider installing grab bars in the tub or shower and around the toilet, and placing nonslip mats in the bathroom and kitchen. Other options that can make your parent’s day-to-day safer are assistive devices – such as a cane, walker, wheelchair or scooter – and physical and/or occupational therapy.

Technology has never been more accessible or easier to use than it is today. Consider a medical alert device with a push-button to call for emergency assistance. Smart home devices are also a great way to automate medication reminders and make phone calls, and many can connect to home security systems.

Your parent may need help keeping up with doctors’ appointments, traveling to the doctor, remembering to prepare for home health visits or navigating technology for telehealth appointments. Some of these tasks your parent can handle alone, but other duties might require assistance.

You may find it helpful to have the following things handy: a list of your parent’s medications and dosages, a copy of their insurance documents and, if applicable, copies of their veteran ID card and healthcare proxy.

Work with your parent to see what is realistic and delegate other tasks if necessary. They may be able to manage their daily medications just fine, but need reminders about appointments and transportation to doctors’ offices.

In the event your parent is recovering from a hospital stay, it’s important to consider home care services while transitioning back to life at home. These services can also help avoid a return visit to the hospital.

Forgetfulness may be a common sign of aging. Missing an appointment or making one questionable decision isn’t cause for immediate alarm, but it may be an indicator that your parent needs a little assistance.

“We all forget things from time to time. It can be a result of stress, anxiety and normal aging,” said Eleonora Tornatore-Mikesh, President and CEO of CaringKind. “These things become more of a concern if they occur frequently and impact a person’s day-to-day functioning.”

There are various ways you can help improve your parent’s cognitive health. Walking and other low-impact exercises are great options to get blood flowing to the brain. Learning a new skill or engaging in games like word puzzles and Sudoku can also help. And, don’t underestimate the importance of a good night’s rest and a balanced diet – foods that are good for the heart are good for the brain.

If your parent’s forgetfulness is posing a risk to their safety – for example, forgetting to turn off the stove or being confused about their surroundings – intervention is necessary.

“If you notice these signs, do what you can to have your parent evaluated by a neurologist who specializes in memory disorders,” Tornatore-Mikesh said. “While Alzheimer’s is the most common form of irreversible dementia, there are many other causes of dementia, some of which are reversible.”

Depending on what you learn during the evaluation, you may want to consider hiring in-home care or looking into a senior living community that offers memory care.

When you get involved with your parent’s day-to-day routine, you will get a feel for their ability to take care of themselves independently. In the world of senior living, this is referred to as activities of daily living, which include but are not limited to:

• Medication assistance
• Personal grooming assistance, such as bathing and getting dressed
• Meal reminders
• Escorts to and from meals and events
• Incontinence management

Have an honest conversation with your parent about their ability to do these things successfully. Some tasks may require modifications. For example, placing a shower chair in the tub can make bathing easier. Encourage your parent to keep a simple wardrobe and use dressing aids, like a shoehorn, sock aid, button hook fastener or a reach extender to help grab things. These tools can eliminate frustration and build confidence.

When assisting with daily tasks, allow your parent to do as much as possible with you by their side. Only intervene when needed or asked.

Staying active and connected is vital to one’s well-being – no matter your age – and it’s especially important for older adults, who often can become isolated and lonely. In fact, research shows that adults 65 years and older spend more than 25 percent of their day watching television.

“Socialization and staying active are very important,” said Tornatore-Mikesh. “Being active and participating in social settings enables the person to use parts of the brain they would not use otherwise.”

When possible, monitor your parent’s behavior. Find an activity that you know brings them joy and engage them. If you happen to live far away, call regularly and encourage family and friends to do the same. Consider programs and centers designed specifically for older adults to keep your parent active and socially engaged during the day.

Unless you have been designated as a power of attorney , decisions regarding finances are still up to your parent. They may want to maintain complete autonomy over their finances. When appropriate – and if necessary – broach the conversation tactfully and delicately.

Fortunately, you do not have to be power of attorney to partner with your parent about staying abreast of accounts, paying monthly bills and managing financial obligations.

Another important aspect of caring for your parents as they grow older is financially preparing for the cost of in-home care. Modifying the home for safety, paying for in-home assistance and purchasing appropriate assistive equipment like a stairlift adds up. Comparing these costs to those associated with a move to an assisted living community is also a key consideration.

Discuss these things with your parent, along with if they have long-term care insurance, to get an accurate idea of their financial state. Your parent may be eligible for government programs, such as Medicaid, veterans benefits and other resources to help with the cost of care.

Caring for an aging parent – or making decisions about a parent’s care – can be overwhelming. As an aging adult’s physical and cognitive abilities change, so does the level of assistance they require. Be aware of caregiver burnout and know that you don’t have to do everything by yourself. There may be resources and avenues available when you need additional help or even a break for several days.

Start your senior care research early and initiate conversations with your parent and family. Being proactive instead of reactive is key to setting everyone up for success. Don’t wait for a mishap or incident like a fall or sudden onset of illness. As your family considers options, it’s important that everyone has a clear vision of what success looks like. The ideal solution will benefit your parent’s health and well-being while maintaining harmony and balance for the entire family.

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Timing Visiting Elderly Parents So Everyone Thrives

Visiting elderly parents is top on many people’s list, but how often should you visit? Balancing a work/life schedule that ensures your parents are okay, yet allows them to maintain their independence is often comparable to walking a tight rope. Basing your visits on their needs is the key to maintaining a proper balance.

Detriments of Loneliness

The National Institute on Aging found that, in seniors, loneliness often contributes to health problems such as a higher systolic blood pressure and depression. Ensuring that your loved one doesn’t feel lonely also helps keep his levels of interleukin-6 at a proper level. This is an inflammatory protein that may contribute to certain diseases, including some cancers, cardiovascular disease, and Alzheimer’s.

Frequency of Visits

Visiting elderly parents is one way to ensure that they don’t wallow in despair and loneliness. Taking their grandchildren or other friends along on the visit is another idea to combat loneliness. Consider your parents’ schedule and your own when determining how often to visit. If a family dinner on Sundays was a tradition for your family throughout the years, it is a wise idea to continue. Keeping up with these types of traditions will make your loved one feel that he or she is responsible for instilling values in the family unit.

Routines are also important in making seniors feel more secure. If you take your parents grocery shopping and to run errands on Thursday afternoons, it’s helpful to shuffle your schedule each week to continue this routine. It is often more beneficial for the senior to know when you will visit rather than surprising them randomly whenever you have a moment to spare. The scheduled visits are something that they can look forward to and plan around their own schedules.

Visits to Facilities

If your parents live in an assisted living or nursing home facility, the temptation to stop by briefly each day may be strong. You may feel need to ensure that your parents are being cared for in an appropriate manner. But keep in mind that daily visits may not suit your loved one’s schedule any more than it will suit yours. Remember that your senior may be surrounded by new friends and involved in new social activities. Check with them first, so you don’t come off as hovering.

Daily visits may be detrimental to your own work/life balance, too, even if the facility is near your home or office. Make the most of your facility visits by becoming friendly with the staff and other residents. If they know that you are a frequent and caring presence, the residents will share any concerns about your parent’s well-being. Your presence not only helps keep the staff members on their toes, it assists them in determining how to best accommodate your parent’s needs. Keep in mind that facilities have routines and schedules that enable it to function well. Avoid visiting during therapy, group activities, meals or bath time.

Whether you visit your parents once a week or more frequently depends upon how well they are coping with the aging process and all it entails. You don’t want your visits to feel intrusive; your desire is to instill confidence in your loved on that you are their number-one advocate. Listen to your parent’s verbal cues and never disregard their feelings. Visiting elderly parents is one of the best ways to ensure that the new “normal” provides a quality of living for everyone concerned.

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Oct 22 2019

Connecting the Elderly with Homebound Care

Many elderly people wish to live out their golden years in the comfort of their own home. It is also vital for them to have optimal independence to remain active at home to maintain good emotional, physical, and social health.

Throughout this article, we will cover the basics of connecting the elderly with homebound care to empower and enrich their lives.

Independence Through Safety & Preparedness

When considering the care of an aging loved one, the most important thing is their safety. They must be able to appropriately deal with the situation in the case of an emergency, whether through easy access to calling for help or a way of alerting emergency services if they were to fall.

Hiring a caregiver

If you are the family of a homebound older person, or an older person who needs help with some day-to-day tasks, hiring a caregiver may be essential in providing them with home health care. A caregiver gives your aging loved one their independence but ensures they remain well cared for and safe, too.

The first thing to consider is the level of care they require. Make notes of their likes, dislikes, their individual needs, and any conditions they may have. All of this will influence the kind of caregiver your homebound loved one requires.

Next, decide if you will find your caregiver at an agency or on a registry. There are benefits and downsides to both, so ultimately it comes down to what is best for you and your elderly family member. CareLink’s caregivers are personal care attendants who offer unskilled care, helping with day-to-day activities like personal grooming, light housekeeping, meal prep, and more.

Finally, you and your loved one must decide on a caregiver. Here it is best to be honest with any caregivers you interview. With such an important role, it is essential they understand the challenges they will face and all special requirements they must deal with. It is also important that the caregiver you select is one whom your homebound elderly likes. This is essential since they will be spending so much time together.

Medical alert systems

New assisted living technology is available for those aging in place. Modern medical alert systems can provide the elderly with life-saving care at the push of a button. Options such as medical alert bracelets and smart watches provide a stylish non-intrusive alternative. 

When a fall is recorded, the devices send out messages and a GPS location to preprogrammed emergency numbers. There are many kinds of medical alert and monitoring systems that alternative care for homebound older people. CareLink can connect you with providers if you are trying to find one for an older loved one.

Automated medicine dispensers

Taking the right medicine and the right amount of it can prove a difficult task for elderly experiencing vision loss and memory loss. With modern technology, you can purchase automatic, preprogrammed medicine dispensers to provide the right medicine in the right dosage at the right time. It provides true peace of mind and avoids overdose or forgetting to take medicine altogether.

Social interaction

Technology can provide homebound older people with many ways to remain independent in their own home. However, that only solves part of the problem. True home health care for the elderly requires consistent social interaction and a connection to the outside world.

Ensure older people aging-in-place have a chance to interact socially , whether through regular visits from family, friends visiting, or through their caregiver. It is incredibly important that the aging community has a chance to interact with others. As they lead an inactive lifestyle, they risk developing emotional or mental issues the more detached from society they become.

Studies show short regular visits are more beneficial than infrequent long visits. Invite them to join you on outdoor outings or trips to the grocery store. If they are capable of traveling, the chance to breathe fresh air and interact with society on another level can be very powerful.

Social media and cell phones

Social media and cell phones offer immediate contact with anyone regardless of their location. A cell phone or tablet device can provide homebound elderly with a connection to the outside world as well as an additional level of security.

It also helps alert caregivers or emergency services in real-timereal time. Not only this, but the connectivity of social media and cell phones give stay-at-home elderly aging in place the ability to have regular social interactions.

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Making Family Visits Pleasant and Safe for the Elderly

Visiting your aging family members is important for their physical and emotional well being. Remaining connected with family decreases social isolation and improves health outcomes. Yet, family visits can be challenging. Complicated dynamics, busy lives, and changing roles are things all families face. With a bit of planning and thoughtfulness, family visits can be less stressful and more enjoyable for everyone.

Be present and pace yourself.

As we grow older, our ability to multitask and maintain lengthy conversations declines. While the pace of life today includes constantly switching gears, try putting away your phone and giving your family your complete attention. Being fully present, even for a few minutes, is an incredible gift to give your loved ones.

This doesn’t mean filling every moment with conversation. Long interactions are draining and silence can be good. If you are planning a lengthy visit, it is helpful to bring something to do while giving conversation a rest. Reading a book, working on a craft project, or putting on some favorite music can help pace your time together.

Take the pressure off.

Hosting company is stressful. Now imagine that you can’t drive to the store anymore, don’t feel comfortable using your new oven, and don’t have the energy to clean the house. If you are visiting around meal time, let your family know that you are bringing sandwiches from a favorite deli. Or plan your visit right after the housekeeper or home health aide comes so that she can help your loved one prepare. The timing of your visit can make a big difference, so if you aren’t sure when the best time of day is, just ask!

Including younger generations in family visits supports these special and important relationships. If you are bringing young children, prepare them ahead of time. Let them know any different rules that apply and talk about physical and mental changes or differences that they might see in their family members. Be honest, but positive about what to expect. Bring along something children can do together with older family members (such as a puzzle, artwork, or story) and also something the children can do independently while the adults talk or rest.

Memory Loss.

Visiting family members who have memory loss can be particularly challenging. While it is painful to see this decline and natural to question what they remember, avoid “testing” them about the past. Instead, share your memories and see if they spark conversation. For example, instead of asking, “Dad, do you remember the big snow storm in ’58? Which one of us built the snow fort in that picture?” You could say, “I always loved it when you helped us make snowmen. Is winter still your favorite season?”

Assess the Situation.

Visiting with elderly family members provides an important opportunity to check in on their safety and well being. Home visits provide insight into their daily routines and ability to care for themselves.

Make it a point to look for things such as:

• Is the laundry getting done?
• Is there food in the refrigerator? Are there healthy choices? Are things expired?
• Are medications stocked and organized?
• Is the housekeeping being done?
• Are there fall hazards around the house?

You should also observe your loved one for weight loss, problems with balance or walking, and changes in mood and behavior.

If you have concerns about the physical or emotional health of a family member, or about their ability to remain at home independently, we can help. The goal of home care companies like First In Care Home Health Agency is to provide assistance and guidance for you and your aging loved ones. Services can be provided for anyone that needs extra assistance. A home care professional provides a helping hand with everyday activities such as grooming and bathing, medication reminders, running errands (grocery shopping, prescription pick-up), transportation, and even movement and mobility.

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Determining if a Senior Can Continue Aging in Place

When arranging for home care for your parent, you and your parent are responsible for setting up the services you want. You can choose from services that range from the basic, in which an attendant visits for a few hours a day to help with personal care, to the comprehensive, in which your parent receives 24-hour a day nursing care. Your choices will be based on your parent’s individual needs and doctor’s instructions.

Skilled Care

After your parent’s doctor has prescribed home care, and you and your parent have decided on a home health agency, a staff member will meet with you and your parent to discuss your parent’s needs and ask questions about your parent’s health. The staff member should also provide a written statement of patients’ rights.

The agency will draw up a plan of care based on doctor’s orders and any requests and preferences you and your parent may have. The agency staff will also talk to your parent’s doctor and update the doctor about your parent’s progress. You should expect the agency to maintain the confidentiality of your parent’s health information and to reply promptly to requests for service.

In addition to any specific care your parent’s doctor prescribed, such as wound care, intravenous or nutrition therapy, or injections, caregivers perform tasks that include:

• Checking blood pressure, temperature, heart rate, and breathing
• Making sure your parent is taking the correct prescriptions and other treatments
• Making sure your parent is eating and drinking properly
• Asking your parent about pain
• Checking that your parent is safe in the home
• Coordinating your parent’s care by communicating regularly with everyone involved
• Educating your parent (and you as appropriate) about the care

Agencies may also provide a medical social worker to help you and your parent find community resources to help with home care.

Personal Care Services

If you hire a home health aide, services that they typically perform include helping with activities of daily living (such as bathing or dressing), shopping for groceries and making meals, organizing your parent’s schedule and appointments, and arranging transportation for medical appointments and other outings. In some states, home health aides are allowed to administer medications under the supervision of a licensed nurse.

Aides will also usually do light housekeeping tasks (such as laundry and vacuuming), but for heavier housework, you’ll probably need to hire a homemaking service.

General Expectations

In general, expect that anyone who comes into your parent’s home is respectful of your parent and their possessions, follows the plan of care established, and performs tasks at a high standard. If you have complaints about a Medicare-certified agency, Medicare offers instructions on how to file a complaint . You can also contact the state agency responsible for licensing, if agencies are licensed in your state, or file a complaint with the attorney general’s office.

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What to Expect When a Caregiver Visits Your Home

Are you curious about whether or not to try home health care in the metro Miami Dade/Broward area? Let us set your mind at ease…

The US Bureau of Labor Statistics predicts huge growth in home health care, and the increasing popularity of home health care may be due, in part, to the increase in an aging population ( U.S. Census Bureau, 2020 ). “By 2030 all baby boomers will be older than 65,” the Census states, and adds that Americans 65 and older may reach 80 million by the year 2040.

With this rise in an older population comes the need for quality home healthcare so patients can recover or continue to live in familiar surroundings. But what IS home healthcare?

Home health care covers a variety of healthcare services that can be provided in your home, especially for recovery from an injury or illness. Home health care often is less expensive and just as effective as the care you receive in a nursing facility or hospital. Often a home health care provider is arranged with the client’s family and the caregiving agency, and while each visit is different, there are some standard services you can expect during the actual home health care visit.

When a home health caregiver visits your home, you can expect the caregiver to provide the following services:

• Patient profile. When a caregiver visits your home for the first time, he or she will spend some time getting to know the patient’s needs, preferences, routines, and meds list. A standard Patient Profile form can be helpful for families to bring caregivers up to speed quickly on a patient’s preferences, meds, and procedures. You can download a version of our Profile Form here and keep it handy for caregivers, doctor visits, or as an emergency document.
• Vitals checks. When a caregiver visits your home, one of the first things he or she will do is complete a check of the patient’s vitals. During a scheduled home healthcare visit, caregivers will measure and chart vitals including weight, blood pressure, respiration, temperature, heart rate, appetite and hydration, and medication checks to address any pain.
• Security checks. The home health caregiver will address common hazards that cause falls and emphasize the importance of preventing slipping/tripping hazards. Your home health care aide will do things like check furniture stability, make sure there is plenty of light in walking areas, and may request additional fall prevention aids be installed like grab bars and handrail.
• Tools for self care. One of the main reasons patients and their loved ones opt for home health care is because the home setting allows patients to heal and regain independence within familiar surroundings and with a sense of security. Each client will have a unique treatment plan and the client and caregiver work together to achieve continued independence. The home health caregiver will assist with tasks such as light housekeeping, errands, bathing, dressing, and meal preparation.
• Review of the emergency plan. It is important to be prepared because even with all the vitals and security checks, accidents can happen, and the homecare provider will emphasize the importance of highlighting in the emergency plan so everyone involved will know the proper steps to take in case of a medical emergency.

There are many many tasks a caregiver will provide; these are just a few of the services home health care can provide for you and your loved ones! If you are interested in learning more about home health care’s comprehensive and compassionate service, please contact us today!

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Visiting The Elderly

“Visit older adults in your neighborhood or residents at a local nursing home or assisted living facility and share the kindness of a personal connection.”

The social workers we surveyed explained that most people who have loved ones in nursing homes or a hospice are hesitant to visit them, let alone visit strangers.

• This reluctance is natural because spending time with a loved one that is ailing is difficult emotionally and even greater if the elderly resident has dementia or other cognitive impairment.
• Visiting someone who might be near the end of their life may remind you of your own mortality.
• You may also feel grief at seeing the deterioration in the health of a once-vigorous person.
• Also, most people surveyed admitted that they worry about what to say when visiting the elderly.

Preparation

Social workers suggest that if you take the time to prepare, an elderly visit is less daunting and more successful.

• Prepare yourself first by reflecting on why you want to visit an elderly loved one or even a perfect stranger. A deep understanding of why makes the how much easier. Personal mental preparation will also address any fears you may be feeling especially if your loved one is cognitively impaired.
• Prepare the person you’re visiting by calling ahead and arranging a convenient time and place for the visit. If the person you’re visiting knows your intentions in advance that will make the visit less awkward and eliminate any surprise or confusion.
• Remember that the person you’re visiting is not at their best. Don’t be surprised if they’re cranky or withdrawn. Their memory may be impaired so avoid talking about the “good old days” or asking if they remember “so and so”.
• Especially when visiting a loved one, keep in mind that you are performing an act of kindness not trying to have a satisfying relationship. The elderly are easily distracted, might want to watch T.V., may repeat themselves often during your visit, and may even fall asleep while you’re talking. The fact that you came to visit was the gift you brought, not stimulating conversation.

Don’t Forget to Remember

The elderly benefit from maintaining lifelong relationships long before they are confined to a nursing home or in extremis in hospice care. If you recently helped your parent or senior loved one make the move to a senior living community, it’s tempting to think your job as a caregiver is done.

• Although you may no longer be responsible for your parent’s daily care, your presence still has a positive impact. Maintaining frequent communication and visiting with the senior loved ones in your life helps them ward off cognitive impairment and emotional isolation as they age, according to research in the  Journal of Health and Social Behavior .
• Taking the time to visit can reinforce family ties and shows your loved one that you can still spend time with them even after they’ve moved away.
• Visiting can also alert you to any signs that your parent’s care is not working out. Unfortunately, elder abuse is a reality for some seniors, whether they live at home or in a senior living community with other residents. Not all abuse is easy to spot — neglect and emotional abuse, for instance, may not be apparent immediately but may require multiple visits before being detected.
• Finally, many seniors who did not raise children find themselves completely alone when they outlive their friends and associates. They, of course, could really use a visit from someone.

Do Not Be Afraid

If your schedule and your temperament permit, please consider volunteering to visit the elderly in your neighborhood. Your simple act of kindness could ease their passing and save them emotional suffering in their final years. Do not be afraid.

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Learn the Benefits of Visiting an Elderly Home.

At The Windsor Senior Living Community , we’re always talking about how proud we are of our community and residents for being able to thrive with each other and still have a sense of individuality. However, individuality doesn’t mean “solidarity.” Many of our residents just want their families to visit them more. And, visiting them can actually help their well-being in the long run. Learn more about the benefits of visiting your loved ones at their elderly home with our professionals.

What It Does For Our Residents

Numerous benefits come from family visits. And we really can see the improvement in our residents when they see their family regularly. Take a look at a few of the benefits that our residents might feel. And see why you should visit.

Makes them feel safer.

One of the biggest fears that people have about senior living communities is that loved ones are kept in the dark. At The Windsor, we ensure residents and their families are aware of events going on and if there are any incidents with their loved ones who may not be able to express themselves as well. Although we go above and beyond to give the absolute best care to our residents, that doesn’t mean there isn’t some type of fear in their hearts. We encourage family and friends to visit not only to spend time with them, but also to check in on how they’re doing. Frequent visits make our residents feel seen and that they’re being taken care of not only by our community but by their families, too.

Boosts health.

Feelings of loneliness and isolation can have negative effects on our general health . This is even more so for the elderly members of our communities as they are more at risk for health problems. But by visiting, you can help our residents feel happier, cared for, and give them the interaction they need to boost their overall happiness. This then creates a domino effect that helps their health in the long run.

Additionally, because you’re able to visit more often, you get to see more as well. Having visits from loved ones help us do our jobs better and improve the care of our residents.

Shows you care.

We know it may seem obvious, but long bouts of isolation can begin to cause doubts. Many residents in every type of senior living home—whether it be a senior living community like ours, a nursing home, or even a memory ward—can begin to feel forgotten and abandoned. But taking the time to visit, especially when you have no underlying reason to, can help residents feel included and happy.

Take the Time You Have With Family

Family is always important. But with this past year, we’ve all seen how easy it is to lose someone. Taking the time to spend even a few minutes with your elderly family members helps to create the memories you need down the road. You and your family can both benefit from visiting our elderly care home. Visit us soon and create those special memories today.

Reap the Benefits of Visiting an Elderly Home Today

Are you ready to improve your loved one’s health, familial relationships, and well-being? Stop by today for a visit! We’re sure they’ll be over the moon to see your smiling faces.

Do you have a question for our team before you visit? If so, all you need to do is contact us. Give us a call at 985-624-8040 or send us a message online . One of our professionals will be more than happy to answer any questions you have and help you find the time to come down to The Windsor.

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How Visiting Your Senior Loved Ones Benefits Everyone

Like most people, seniors can feel happier and even younger when they’re with the people they love. Staying social, especially with family, can enrich their life and  lead to a sharper mind and give a sense of belonging to combat social isolation and loneliness.

The benefits of visiting your senior loved ones don’t just stop there. There are also benefits for you and your family. From peace of mind about their health to keeping traditions alive, everyone can gain something from a visit to the grandparents.

Here are just a few of the rewards that come with visiting your senior loved ones:

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5 Conversation Ideas for Visiting Elderly Loved Ones

With the holidays in full swing, many people are spending time with family and friends, including visiting with their elderly loved ones who may live in a nursing home or personal care/assisted living community. For a lot of people, visiting with senior loved ones in these environments can create anxious feelings because they are afraid that they won’t know what to say or will have difficulty relating. If you feel this way, it may help to remember that your visit will mean a lot to your loved one and doesn’t have to be lengthy or include non-stop conversation. Most importantly, your visit can be an opportunity for you to bond and create memories together.

If you’re planning on visiting your elderly loved ones this holiday season, you can lessen your anxious feelings by preparing a list of topics or questions that can help with conversation. Here are a few conversation ideas to get you started:

1. Make a Positive Observation – A positive comment or observation can go a long way. This can help to improve everyone’s mood, and may stick with your senior loved one for days. You can comment on their outfit, their mood, their decorations, the weather outside, etc. Making positive comments throughout your conversation can improve your loved one’s mindset and help to generate good feelings.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions – Asking questions that don’t have a right or wrong answer can be a nice, stress-free way to start a discussion. For example, you can ask about your loved one’s favorite food, their most memorable vacation, what their hobbies are, their favorite season, their favorite movies and TV shows or what makes them happy. Asking an open-ended question can help to break the ice and start a conversation.

3. Read Out Loud – Reading to your senior friend or family member can spark new topics and ideas. You can pick a book or article based on your loved one’s interests, read a passage from it and discuss each of your perspectives. For example, if they like (or used to like) to cook, sharing recipes or articles about cooking can be enjoyable for them. For many, reading spiritual passages can be a comforting way to pass the time together, as well.

4. Ask for Advice – It’s natural for people to want to help each other and feel useful. If there is any advice that you can ask your loved one for, they may want to provide their opinion, which in turn may help to boost their confidence. If you can think of advice you may need in areas where your loved one has experience, such as raising a family, cooking, cleaning or home repairs, feel free to ask them for their opinion during your visit.

5. Look at Past Photographs or Mementos – Looking at photographs or mementos from the past and reminiscing about memories can be a great conversation starter for you and your loved one. If you have any photographs to bring with you, share them. You can ask questions about them and help to bring up stories of the past. Many seniors like to talk about when they were younger, and may even tell you some stories of when you were younger that you don’t remember!

Visiting elderly loved ones in a senior care community can help to avoid loneliness, can strengthen bonds and can create memories that last a lifetime. If you’re anxious about visiting an elderly loved one, we hope that our tips can help alleviate your stress and enable you to have an enjoyable visit this holiday season.

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Planning A Visit To A Nursing Home

When visiting your loved ones in a Nursing home facility, be sure to be prepared mentally and emotionally. For some visitors, it is understandable that the nursing home atmosphere may be depressing because of the sight of several seniors who have suffered from different forms of disabilities.

Some of the nursing home residents may look confused, depressed or disoriented, but don’t judge them by their physical appearance. Some of the seniors in nursing homes may look disoriented when you see them but may be energetic on different days.

When Should You Visit Your Elderly Loved One in A Nursing Home?

Most facilities have very flexible visiting hours during the day. Before planning to visit your elderly loved one in a nursing home or skilled nursing facility, be sure to call the nursing facility to ask about the visiting hours.

It will also be good to find out the schedule of your loved one on the day you plan to visit to make sure you don’t interrupt any scheduled events, mealtime and senior activities. Most nursing homes encourage families to join their loved ones during mealtime. If you plan to join your elderly loved one, call the nursing home to make arrangements. An additional fee may be charged for your meal.

Things to Remember When Visiting Seniors in A Nursing Home:

1. Keep your promises. If you promise to visit your loved one, make sure you do, otherwise the nursing home resident will be disappointed. If you need to reschedule your visit, be sure to call the nursing home.

2. Knock before you enter the room. Your aging loved one’s room in a nursing home is considered his or her individual home. It is important that you respect their privacy and living space. Be sure to knock and ask permission before you enter. If the nursing home resident is unable to respond, be sure to announce your name before you open the door.

3. Be affectionate. Physical contact is important to seniors in nursing homes. Hug, kiss or hold the hand of your aging relative, if possible to let them know and feel that you love them and that they are not forgotten.

4. Be a good listener. When visiting your aging loved one in a nursing home, it is important that you listen to him or her attentively. Let your loved one do the talking so he or she does not feel rush when sharing their stories and feelings. Try not to dominate the conversation. Be a good listener, even if you’ve heard the story or topic several times. Listening attentively to your aging loved one’s story lets him or her enjoy the moment with you.

5. Bond with your elderly loved one. You want to make your aging parent or relative happy and feel loved. But what you can you do together during your visit to the nursing home? Think of things that you used to do together like playing board games, watching movies, singing or doing arts and crafts. If in case you cannot think of any activities, you can always contact the nursing home’s activity director for ideas and suggestions for seniors. Remember, doing things together will make your visit fun and memorable!

6. Bring family pictures and videos. If you have recent family pictures or videos, be sure to bring it. This will definitely put a smile on your aging loved one’s face. Keeping the nursing home resident up to date about family events and activities they’ve missed will make your elderly loved one happy.

7. Bring the family . If you have children or grandchildren bring them when you go to the nursing home to encourage a relationship between the kids and your elderly loved one. Kids are so much fun, they will definitely help brighten up your aging loved one’s day!

8. Plan a day trip. If you plan to take your seniors or elderly loved one out of the nursing home facility, be sure to call the nursing home in advance. Talk to your aging parent or relative about it to find out how he or she feels about your plan. You will also have to talk to the nursing home staff or administrator to make special arrangements for medicines, special equipment or other things that your aging loved one might need.

9. Thank the caregivers. Take time to talk to the caregivers and staff members in the nursing home. Be sure to thank them and show your appreciation for taking care of your aging relative. Do not hesitate to compliment the caregiver for a job well done with the seniors.

10. Enjoy your time and do not rush. Spending quality time with your elderly loved one in the nursing home is something that will forever be cherished by the nursing home resident so make it a memorable one.

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The benefits of home doctor visits for the elderly.

The way that seniors age is changing, and their medical care needs to change too. These days an overwhelming majority of seniors are choosing to stay in their own homes as they get older. Seniors living at home face unique challenges and getting medical care can be one of those challenges. Home doctor visits for the elderly eliminate a lot of the challenges that seniors and their families have making sure those seniors have access to quality care. Home doctor visits for the elderly have many benefits like:

No Transportation Challenges

Seniors who don’t drive any longer can have a hard time getting to medical appointments. Many seniors have trouble understanding how to use rideshare services. Senior transportation can be tough to schedule and expensive. And cabs and public transportation may not be available where seniors live. Home doctor visits for the elderly mean that seniors don’t have to worry about or pay for transportation to get to the doctor for routine appointments. 

Easier Scheduling For Family Members

Seniors who rely on family members for rides or have family members who need to accompany them to medical visits may find it’s difficult for their family members to be available for all of their medical appointments. Family caregivers who work or have children may not be able to get time off or juggle their schedules to accommodate the time necessary for picking up their senior loved one, going to the appointment, then taking them home again. 

When a home physician can conduct the appointment right at the senior’s home it significantly cuts the time necessary for the appointment. And scheduling a doctor visit at home gives the doctor more flexibility with appointment times. 

Less Stress For Seniors With Mobility Challenges

Seniors who use a walker, wheelchair, or who can’t walk long distances because of balance problems or other health challenges can find it very difficult to make it to a doctor’s office. The walk from the parking lot to the office can be very long for a senior who can’t get around very well. There are often steps to contend with and heavy doors. And bad weather can make it even more difficult for them. Doctor visits at home for the elderly mean that seniors can stay in the comfort of their homes without having to worry about the weather or having to walk long distances. 

Less Upsetting For Seniors With Alzheimer’s

Seniors who have dementia or Alzheimer’s often get upset when they are in unfamiliar surroundings, like a medical building. They may become agitated or aggressive or they may try to wander off. When seniors with Alzheimer’s or dementia can be treated at home it’s easier on them and easier on their caregivers. Having a doctor visit at home is the best option for seniors who have dementia because it means they will get medical care they need in an environment that is comfortable and familiar that feels safe to them.

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7 Ways To Have a Fun Visit with Your Elderly Relative

Do you have a senior in your life who you visit? They may be living in a nursing home, assisted living, receiving home care, or may be living independently. Would you like to spread good cheer to seniors you may not know personally? It can be intimidating to think of a visit stretching out with “nothing to talk about”, but your interaction and social connection can be the link between a lonely, isolated existence and a fulfilling, happy life. Don’t be shy or hesitant to reach out.

At HomeChoice Home Care Solutions our caregivers are providing in-home senior care around the clock. Yes, a lot of in-home elderly care includes assisting with “activities of daily living”; things like bathing, dressing, transferring from bed to chair, but the real magic happens in the personal touch. It is the interaction and companionship that are the true bright spots in our clients’ days. We provide ideas to help our caregivers connect with our clients so the relationship is real and meaningful.

Just because someone is elderly doesn’t mean they have no history, nothing interesting to offer- in fact, it is just the opposite. Our seniors have a wealth of life experience and adventures to share with us. Feel free to use some of these suggestions to start up a conversation or to deepen an existing relationship:

• Be genuine – By showing genuine interest in someone you create a warm and open flow of communication. Remember to ask who, what, where, why, and how questions. Stay away from “yes” or “no” questions. Pay attention to the answers and build your questions on those answers. Did the senior you’re visiting have an interesting career? What period of time did they live through? Everyone has lived through an interesting period in history. What are/ were their hobbies? How did they meet their spouse? Where have they lived?
• Find an Activity – Is there an activity related to their interests the senior might enjoy? We had a client who was a pilot who enjoyed taking a ride to the airport and watching the planes land and take off. He and his caregiver would stop for an ice cream cone on the way home and that was a good day!
• Change of Scenery – Could you sit on a porch or go for a short walk?
• Photo Albums – Does your senior have any old photo albums? Reminiscing can be a source of great joy. Page through the album and get lost in the stories of their past. Ask questions and spend time truly appreciating the life they have lived. One 95-year-old client reminisced about her time with her husband as missionaries in Africa. Her favorite saying was “We loved life!”.
• Games – Do they like to play games? It doesn’t have to be complicated- UNO, Go Fish?, Old Maid, cribbage, or board games like Parcheesi or Sorry!
• Books -Maybe they would enjoy hearing a book read to them. Do they have a particular interest in fiction or biographies?
• Touch! Don’t be afraid to give a good hug, a rub on the back, or lotion on the hands. Seniors are starved for physical affection- especially when they become dependent on other people for the task of their day-to-day care. If COVID has taught us anything it is that we need each other and we need to feel that physical connection and care.

Our seniors are our treasures. It is up to all of us to make them feel valued and loved for who they are and what they have to offer all of us. Reach out today to make a difference in a senior’s life.

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Date Updated: June 18, 2024

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Visiting Schedules

If your mother is moving into a nursing home, the transition can be difficult. There are two schools of thought about visits during this period. The first advises loved ones to stay away for a while to let new residents get settled. The idea is that residents need time to adjust to their new schedules and activities and that too many visits from family members can get in the way. The other school of thought suggests frequent visits during the first few weeks. These visits can fight stress and help a new resident feel more relaxed and comfortable thanks to familiar faces and time with loved ones. The option you choose depends on your loved one’s personality, adjustment and needs.

After your mother has settled into her new home, your visiting schedule might change. You may visit once a week or stop by every couple of weeks or once a month. Most experts say that daily visits aren’t necessary, but you might disagree and choose a more frequent visiting schedule. The frequency will be guided by your relationship with your loved one, your distance from the nursing home and your current obligations. Whatever you decide, be consistent in your visits. Elderly people look forward to seeing their loved ones regularly and experience great disappointment when family and friends fail to show up. If this becomes a habit, it can lead to depression and anxiety and even contribute to health issues.

Visiting Activities

When you visit your mother or other loved one in a nursing home, don’t try to do too much. Often, just sitting in a quiet, comfortable place for a good chat is enough. You could bring along an old photo album and reminisce for a while or simply tell your mother all about what has been going on in your life lately. Be sure to ask her what’s new with her, too.

Focus on the quality of each visit rather than the amount of time spent. You may only be able to stay for a half hour. If so, make it a half hour filled with love and enjoyment. Be aware, also, that your loved one might get involved with activities or have therapy sessions. Try to schedule your visits around these so that your mother can get involved in the community and make friends. You could participate in community activities, too, if your mother prefers, but try to make at least some visits to focus on keeping your relationship healthy and satisfying for both of you. Your mother will be less lonely and better adjusted if you continually show her you care.